I was talking with a friend this morning about losing a loved one.  She was lamenting how much she's going to miss her dear sister-girlfriend who died suddenly a few weeks ago.   The loss she was sharing was palpable.  It can be terrible to feel that someone or something so dear can be gone from us forever.  Here's the thing though ... when we get clear on what the love we're feeling is, … [Read more...]

Have you ever contemplated the nature of the love you're giving?  Is it through words or deeds?  Is it your presence or gifts?  Is it sweet and enduring?  Or is it hot and fleeting.  Is it unconditional or does it come with attachments and expectations?  Is it reserved for people who meet a certain set of standards or is it freely given, even to the "stinky people" as Mathew Ferry calls … [Read more...]